I haven’t posted anything new in a while. Between life and more life it simply hasn’t happened. Our little man is now 20 months old and progressing amazingly. He is growing, his 23rd tooth is pushing through, obsessed with the water (a true beach baby who has no fear of the waves), and can not get enough of life. My wife has done an amazing job as his caretaker and we are blessed in many ways. How she has the energy and emotional strength is beyond me….I am probably harder than he is and she can attest to that.
Anyhow, our journey is changing. We are constantly coming up with ideas, thoughts, and overall wondering what life has in store for us. I spent the last 1.5 years attending law school online, but we decided that uprooting again in order for me to attend a better school was a smart decision. As a result we are leaving the beautiful Gulf Coast beaches and heading to Salem, Oregon in a few weeks. Will it be a bit of a culture and weather shock? I suppose. However, one we are excited and planning for.
As with any move, especially a cross-country move, pressure can be intense. Ours a little more so because of having three pets; two of which are on the “aggressive breed list” which makes renting a home nearly impossible. I flew to Oregon a few weeks ago and we are under contract on a home out there. Lord willing we will close at the beginning of July and have a place to move into as we acclimate to our new town. Over the next few months and years I see this blog taking a drastic shift and including more seemingly randomness as we figure out life that is founded in what we believe, want, and think will be best for us as a family of three……or four……or more.
If not for my wife’s choices and ability to stay home we wouldn’t have these options. She truly is the foundation of our family and I(we) are forever grateful. For those who don’t know she voluntarily walked away from a great career as a critical care RN in Canada to move overseas. After a year in the Caribbean we returned to Florida and she acquired her green card and permanent residency. I can imagine she is antsy to be back with her fellow practitioners, and I would assume in the near future she will be, but she is also interested in pursuing her masters or PhD. Whenever and whatever she chooses I support…..God knows I owe her the utmost support.
We are only a few months away from my education starting over (four more years), but we also think about what will we do after school. It seems simple….graduate, land a job, pay our bills, and try to provide a comfortable/safe lifestyle for your family. I struggle with the status quo for a few reasons: the legal field is swamped, a legal education is expensive, it does not teach one to be a practitioner but rather teaches someone enough to pass the bar exam, I don’t like working for others, the US doesn’t currently hold my interest, and I detest the idea of wearing a suit and cubicles. It would appear my chosen career path is wrong. However, I do have reasons for it and how it may pan out. Luckily my education is free; I have the ability to walk away debt free. We have residual income which will remain in place even after school ends, but we hope to grow that residual income through real estate ventures while attending school. If our plan pans out I will graduate in 2018 with a law degree that does not need to be utilized for monetary benefit; rather, used for the sole purpose of helping others.
Where will we go? What will we do? Only time will tell, but it will surely be an adventure filled with change, culture, multiple languages, bambinos, and fun. Until next time….stay thirsty my friends.